On second thought….

About a week ago, I wrote a post called “saying goodbye“. My credit card was billed $94.00 for a word press subscription that I wasn’t using, so I figured it was a good time to cancel. After posting said post, several of the friends I have made on WP advised me that WP had free version and I would only need to pay $18.00 a year to keep my domain name msgracefulnot.com. Hmmm ok that I could do, so I took down the Saying goodbye post, cancelled the paid subscription, and here I am.

Thank you again to those of you that reached out to me!!!!!

Why I stopped using Word press

For the greater part of last year, I made the conscious choice to avoid social media as much as possible. My personal plate was full and I couldn’t deal with all the negativity, fear, and hate being passed around between people. I saw sides of people that I could not imagine they were capable of, so after writing, Say what you mean, and mean what you say, I pretty much “disappeared.”

When I created my blog, my original intention was to provide PROOF that with the right amount of determination, creativity, and humor you can survive almost anything.  I wanted to help anyone that was feeling alone or overwhelmed with their lives, to see that they were not alone.  I believe that on many occasions I did that.

  1. I have written about  being diagnosed with Multiple Sclerosis. 
  2. I’ve written about choosing a disease modifying therapy.
  3. I’ve written about how insurance companies like to “play doctor”.
  4. I’ve written about my children and not winning the mother of the year award.
  5. I’ve talked about air travel with MS.
  6. I’ve talked about Train travel in a wheelchair.  and the importance of knowing your equipment and your limits.
  7. I’ve talked about being full of shit.
  8. I’ve shared some of the treatments for bladder incontinence and urge incontinence due to MS.
  9. I’ve shared some of my most painful moments.  (Mentally and physically)
  10. I’ve shared some of my happiest moments.

I mentioned earlier that I’ve had a full plate this year, but I’ve not been at all specific. There are multiple reasons for this.

In some instances, the stories I want to share, are not entirely mine to tell. For example, both of my parents are going through life changing medical issues. I can tell you how it’s been affecting me, but I’m not sure how much is TOO much to share. I’m still working on this.

Another reason for the vagueness is because the “jury is still out” about many of my health issues. While I can share what I have been experiencing, and why I’ve been doing what I have been doing, I still don’t know if my decisions were the right ones to make, so I don’t want to lead anyone astray if they are dealing with anything similar. I will work on this as well.

In the meantime, I would like to reintroduce myself, and invite you back into my world. If you are joining me for the first time, my About Me page, is a good place to start. (I wrote it a year ago, but I believe most things still apply.)

When I thought I was leaving wordpress, I was trying to think of a way to “go out with a bang.” I began creating a “contest” to attempt to draw everyone in, one more time. It has occurred to me, that I can use the same contest to “Come in with a bang”, or “get back in the saddle if you will.” Giving away prizes, opens the door to discussing some of the positive things that I have been doing over the last year as well.

On Wednesday, September 2nd at 9 am Central Time, I will post a list of questions about myself, or things I have written about in this blog. I do believe that most of the questions can be answered by reading the posts that I have linked above. (if not THESE posts specifically, the answers will still be available within my website) The prizes will go to the first two people that post the most correct answers to my questions in the post “How graceful are you?” in the comments section of that post no earlier than Monday September 7th @ 9 am central time and no later than 3 pm Central time of the same day.

I hope you will all participate. See you soon!


13 thoughts on “On second thought….

  1. Yaaaaay, you’re staying! I’m selfishly very pleased, and I’m glad it worked out with the money side of things to pay for the domain but get the free WP platform. I think you do a fantastic job of raising awareness, providing support and encouragement, and spreading kindness. I get what you mean with vagueness as I have to tread carefully given the confusion over some of my issues, and a surgery I can’t bring myself to ever talk about. All you can do is share what you’re able to, and people will take from that what they will. I’m just so glad to see you’re staying in the blogosphere! xx

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    1. Aw Caz! One day if you are willing we will meet in real life. I think you are an incredible person and the job you do here is incredible! Stupid covid!…. I have never been to the uk and hope to someday, but if I don’t you are always welcome here in the states!!!

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  2. I’m so glad you’re sticking around Grace! You provide such a great service to people living with MS and other chronic conditions, but you also make the blogosphere a fun place to be! I always love reading about your (mis)adventures. Even when you’re telling stories about painful things that have happened you keep a positive attitude and sense of humor, which is rare in this day and age. I know what you mean about being vague about things….sometimes it’s hard to know where to draw the line with what to share. You want to be real and vulnerable, but you don’t want to share a story that’s not yours to share, or share so much it makes you uncomfortable. I’m sure you’ll get it all figured out and continue sharing your story in your lovely, unique voice. Hugs!

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      1. well the good news is that facebook NEVER lies:)

        I am doing wonderfully well with my weed filled life:) Managed to find happiness is spades:)

        Hoping you are staying safe and sane


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